Dating texting and calling rules

If you’re not riddled with insecurities, she will get that from you right away. The basic rules which apply are very general and they’re really just about being socially aware and not socially awkward or displeasing to others.

So calling her early won’t change how she feels about you. The REAL part of attraction is communication and that’s the part where you’ll find it so counter-intuitive you’re more likely to screw it up.

If you waited and called, she assumed you were following that stupid dating rule every other guy was doing and if she was only slightly interested in the guy, she wouldn’t even answer the call or text. Here are the REAL solutions: If you don’t want to appear needy – stop being so needy. If you don’t want to appear desperate – stop acting so desperate to kiss her ass or get a date. If you don’t have anything to do get out and start doing things you love. Just don’t linger around and act like you need the attention or how you’re worried she’s going to meet another guy.

Don’t send a 100 texts or call her everyday when you haven’t even gone on a date yet. If you’re not sure how OFTEN to text her – read this: You can see from the “obvious” solutions offered that it appears men were looking for the “easy way” into a woman’s pants.

Using the 3 day no contact rule will essentially only prove to a woman – you are insecure and need to follow rules.

It’s just how a naturally attractive man with confidence acts.

They acted from a place of “scarcity” or as if they had no real prospects.

It states you should wait 3 days before you call a girl after you’ve gotten her number.

Whether this applies to texting is not important because that old dating rule is total bullshit be it texting, messaging, or whatever social media you prefer to use.

How if they just acted like they were a real man, they didn’t actually have to become one.

You’ll find a lot of the bullshit dating rules were invented or written to serve that very purpose.

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