Avoid dating men with kids
Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.8) You don’t want to deal with the child’s father.
Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.
PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
Depending on what is happening with the child’s biological father, how much time the child spends around you, paying for the child, and buying gifts for the child (think birthdays, Christmas, etc.), you can end up getting tagged for child support.
All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers.
I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.
An unmarried mother should put her child(ren) first.
The child is already dealing with not having a mother and father married to each other and living together, and needs parental attention.
She has demonstrated already that she doesn’t know how to effectively use contraception OR otherwise doesn’t make good choices because she made children with the wrong guy (most likely)*, and has demonstrated that she WANTS to be a mother as she kept the child.
Once a woman is a mother, she is less reluctant to avoid pregnancy.